来咨询的是16岁孩子小云的母亲。小云很小时,她的父母就离婚了。妈妈将所有的希望寄托在

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来咨询的是16岁孩子小云的母亲。小云很小时,她的父母就离婚了。妈妈将所有的希望寄托在她的身上,努力为她提供良好的生活和学习条件。小云自己也很努力,如妈妈所愿考入某重点高中,成为妈妈的骄傲。但入学以后不久,妈妈发现小云的学习积极性大不如前,和妈妈交流越来越少,还经常和妈妈吵架。大人只要一张嘴,孩子就说知道了。小云在学校一天了,妈妈想问问孩子在学校的情况,她也多半以“没什么”拒绝家长。更让妈妈苦恼的是,乖巧的孩子表现出较强的逆反心理,那个妈妈眼中的乖女儿成了一个处处与她对着干的孩子。为了了解孩子,妈妈甚至采用了偷看日记、偷看手机短信等自己也认为不当的方式。小云的妈妈困惑地说“我全心全意为了她,一直希望她出人头地,我为她花了那么多钱,为她付出了那么多精力,结果为什么是这样呢?”

案例中,妈妈与小云沟通出现问题的主要原因有()。

A.没有真正了解孩子的感受、想法

B.对子女期望过高,凡事替孩子做决定,忽视孩子的自主性和独立性

C.这个年龄的孩子与家长沟通不畅是普遍现象

D.家长缺乏沟通的技巧

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Are you feeling stressed out? Anxious? Is your mind racing in circles? Are you worried about all the things you have to get done? Here’s a quick—acting trick that can make you feel better.

If you are sitting at a desk, place the palm of your hand on the desk, and take a moment to focus on what the surface of the desk feels like. Is it hot or cold, rough or smooth? Put all of your attention on the sensations in your palm, on how the desk feels underneath your hand. If you are not at a desk, do the same exercise by placing your palm on any nearby object—a wall, a chair, even your opposite arm.

When you are feeling stressed, your thoughts tend to take on a life of their own. You may be thinking about things you wish you had done differently in the past or worrying about things that you have to do in the future. These thoughts will make you feel anxious. The anxiety, in turn, increases the number of anxious thoughts.

If you can ground yourself even for a moment in the present, you will break the cycle and feel instant relief. Paying attention to what objects in your environment feel like forces you to pay more attention to the present moment than to negative, anxiety—provoking (刺激的,诱发的)thoughts about the past or about the future.

Try using your other senses too:

Try closing your eyes for a second(don’t try this while driving!) and breathe deeply through your nose. What do you smell?

When eating, put all your attention on how your food tastes.

What do you hear? What little noises are there around you that you didn’t notice before?

Look closely at an ordinary object. Do you see anything you haven’t noticed before?

小题1:By saying  “Is your mind racing in circles”, the author intends to mean that______.

A.you did something wrong in the past and wouldn’t forgive yourself

B.your mind is quick and bright when in a state of anxiety

C.you are thinking in a stupid way when anxious thoughts worries you a lot

D.you worried a lot and the anxious thoughts will increase your anxiety小题2:The author advises to put your palm on the desk or any things nearby in order to ____

A.play a small trick

B.feel the surface of the object

C.do some exercises

D.reduce your anxiety小题3:The writer mentioned some senses that could be used to reduce stress except the _____.

A.sense of touching

B.sense of smell

C.sense of humour

D.sense of listening小题4:Which of the following can be served as a title for the article?

A.Frist Aid to Anxiety----Senses

B.How Anxiety Works

C.The Cause of Anxiety—Senses

D.How to Deal with Anxiety

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