Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right and others are wrong. Many people believe that it’s their job to
36 others how their positions, statements and points of view are
37 and that in doing so, the person they are correcting is going to somehow
38 it, or at least learn something. Wrong！
Think about it. Have you ever been
39 by someone and said to him, “Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right.” Or has anyone you know ever
40 you when you corrected him, or made yourself “right” at his
41 ? Of course not. The truth is, all of us
42 to be corrected. We all want our position to be
43 and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest
44 of the human heart. And those who learn to
45 are the most loved and respected. Those who are in the
46 of correcting others are often hated and
47 .
A wonderful way of becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice
48 others the joy of being right--- give them the glory.
49 correcting. When someone says, “I really feel it’s important to…” rather than
50 and saying, “No, it’s more important to…” , simply let it go and allow his statement to
51 . The people in your life will become less defensive and more
52 . They will appreciate you more than you could ever have
53 possible. You’ll discover the joy of joining in and seeing other people’s
54 , which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos（自我意识）. Starting today, and let others be “
55 ” most of the time.| 小题1: | | A．classify | B．show | C．advise | D．persuade |
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| 小题2: | | A．unbelievable | B．imperfect | C．incorrect | D．unimportant |
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| 小题3: | | A．promote | B．appreciate | C．consider | D．understand |
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| 小题4: | | A．corrected | B．fooled | C．helped | D．taught |
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| 小题5: | | A．awarded | B．accepted | C．cared | D．thanked |
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| 小题6: | | A．effort | B．price | C．expense | D．power |
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| 小题7: | | A．afford | B．hate | C．like | D．prefer |
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| 小题8: | | A．respected | B．received | C．admired | D．realized |
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| 小题9: | | A．advantages | B．appetites | C．shortcomings | D．desires |
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| 小题10: | | A．adjust | B．benefit | C．listen | D．praise |
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| 小题11: | | A．form | B．habit | C．purpose | D．position |
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| 小题12: | | A．avoided | B．left | C．punished | D．scolded |
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| 小题13: | | A．lending | B．owing | C．promising | D．allowing |
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| 小题14: | | A．Consider | B．Practice | C．Stop | D．Continue |
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| 小题15: | | A．working out | B．jumping in | C．turning up | D．putting off |
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| 小题16: | | A．stand | B．last | C．harm | D．work |
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| 小题17: | | A．careful | B．helpful | C．popular | D．loving |
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| 小题18: | | A．ordered | B．led | C．dreamed | D．demanded |
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| 小题19: | | A．worries | B．happiness | C．sufferings | D．success |
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| 小题20: | | A．right | B．satisfied | C．proud | D．excited |
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