根据短文内容，从下框的A～F选项中选出能概括每一段主题的最佳选项，选项中有一项为多余项。
A.Suggestions on having interviews
B. Be yourself
C. Listen before talking
D. Use your eyes and smile
E. Focus your energy
F. Qualities of good communication |
1.________
Good communication is vital in modern society. We know that much of the communication is unspoken. Consciously or unconsciously, we show our true feelings with our eyes, faces, bodies and attitudes. Your
good qualities can make good communication. The personal qualities include physical appearance, energy, rate of speech, pitch and tone of voice, gestures, expressiveness of eyes, and the ability to hold the interest of others. What should we do so that our communication will be effective? Here are my suggestions.
2. ________
Firstly, the trick is to be consistently you, at your best. The most effective people never change
character from one situation to another. They're the same whether they're having a conversation with their
close friends, addressing their garden club or being interviewed for a job. They communicate with their
whole being.
3. ________
Secondly, whether you're talking to one person or one hundred, always remember to look at them.
Don't break eye contact while talking. As you enter a room, move your eyes comfortably, and then look
directly at those in the room and smile. This shows clearly that you are at ease. Smiling is important. The
best type of smile and eye contact is gentle and comfortable, not force.
4. ________
You should also absorb other people before showing yourself. You can't learn anything when you talk. When you attend a meeting, a party or an interview, don't immediately start throwing your opinions. Stop
for a second. Absorb what's going on. What's the mood of the others-are they down, up, happy,
expectant? Are they eager to learn from you, or do they show resistance? If you can sense what's
happening with others, you will be better able to reach them. So, listen before you talk.
5. ________
How do you get your energy up? Before the meeting, collect your thoughts about the goal of the
meeting-yours and the other's. Once you go through the doorway, no longer think about yourself. Focus
on the person you are meeting to find out what he is interested in. Properly collected energy comes across when we sincerely believe something. When you speak with energy, you are involved with your audience
and your message. You create an air of certainty. The audience may disagree with you, but they can't
question your belief. |
