Peer（同龄人）Pressure Peer pressure is just

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Peer（同龄人）Pressure

Peer pressure is just part of the challenges in life.   66  If you need further guidance, this article might help you. It provides three effective tips to deal with it:

Be with friends who respect your beliefs

You can go out with people who accept and respect the things you believe in and those who you know you can share your interests with. It is all right to be choosy with friends because you just want what is best for them and you.   67  You are just exhibiting what you know is right and good for both sides. Your friends will understand you for that. They can drag you away from discrimination and you can be confident that they will not leave you for your stand in life.

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When you are driven by so many peer pressures, you can always stay away from it. You can actually decide not to be one of them. When you have decided on it, learn to be firm with your decision.   69 They should know that you cannot be forced to do certain things because you are strong and firm with what you believe in.

Learn how to say no

Learning to say no is one big factor to deal with some pressures from all of your friends. When you are convinced to do something you know that can only destroy you or ruin you, learn to say no.   70 You cannot just say yes to anything. You have a functional mind and you know what is best for you. So learn to say no even if saying no means losing your friends.

A．Don’t blame others.

B．Have a firm decision.

C．You should know how to deal with it.

D．You can always deal with it positively.E. Just be straightforward and say it without hesitation.

F. This does not mean you are being selfish or you are being self-centered.

G. This can make them believe that you cannot just be driven by any other thing.