阅读理解。 Without question, the most stress

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阅读理解。

     Without question, the most stressful years for parents are when their children are between 13 and 20.

With young children, control seems to be quite easy. If a child doesn't do what he is told to do, he is just

made to do it. If a child is leaving the house and doesn't listen when the parent calls him back, the parent

simply goes after the child picks him up and brings him back. But as the child grows older and bigger,

parents can't do that any more. They can't just pick the child up and bring him back. With older children,

control is best achieved when the parents do those things the children want. In this way, the things do the

controlling for you. For example, parents may think it is necessary for the child to clean his own room, but

the child may think it's no use and refuses to clean his room. It is important for parents to understand how

their use of control must change as their children grow older.

1. Many children do what they are ________ to do ________ they are under the age of thirteen.

2. A child sometimes ________ to his parents when he grows older.

3. If a child leaves the ________ without permission (同意), he will be brought ________.

4. When a child ________ to clean his room, he may think it's not ________.

5. It's important for parents to ________ their children and ________ their way of controlling as time goes on.